Can DCF take me and my children out of the house over word of mouth?
My son a few weeks back was questioned at school by dcf because some kid told on him about wanting to “kill himself” the school called me and we spoke for awhile then i find out they also questioned my daughter who attends the same school. my son said some things he regrets he lied about things because he said he was pressured to talk he said they talked to him in a little room and begged for answers he didnt know the answers to. he said it was recess time and he wanted to go play (he is 9) with his friends so he just agreed to the questions they put in his mouth.. fast forward a couple weeks and here we are. DCF came to my door (they made it friday on new years weekend) they came in and asked me a few questions i was honest and happy to give them my time. they said that me and my husband are alleged perpetrators for emotional abuse because he was talking about suicide… something you should know about my son is that he has had a rough life..his dad left him and hasnt seen him in 6 years he had a very close relationship with his dads side of the family so when they left his life it left him scarred he has a big heart and is very emotional. back to where i was.. when dcf was at my house i noticed they were putting words in my mouth and assuming everything making judgments against my husband i told them he has never laid a hand on me or the kids and he sometimes just has a short fuse and gets angry.. but besides hitting the wall once or twice in our 7 year marriage its never been more than that he is an understanding dad and takes time to understand our kids and their problems and tries to talk them through it..dcf rolled their eyes and didnt believe me..then they went on about how im also a victim of his emotional abuse.. i refuse that ..i am NOT a victim my husband is my bestfriend he is a hard worker and tries everyday to do the best he can for our family.. they wouldnt even hear me out they wanted to get me and the kids out before he came home from work. i dont understand why all this has snowballed into something so ridiculous..they asked and asked me over and over to get a restraining order but i said no. they forced me to either A:find a family member for the kids to stay at B: take them into state custody obviously i cant leave my kids side and my family wont watch the kids without me being there so me and the kids were forced to leave…that was on friday and today is monday i need to know if there is anything i can do to fight this. or any tips or suggestions? what can i do to show dcf that my husband isnt quilty of abuse of any kin… we dont not emotionally abuse our kids please someone help im desperate
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